The key to improving relationships is to focus on reaching understanding and reaching clarity, rather than focusing on agreement.

Reaching agreement when each party has a different understanding is very often the cause of poor relationships.

Optimal relationships start with clarity and understanding the other person’s reference frame. When each understands the other, agreement often follows naturally.

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Posted In: Improving Relationships On: September 14, 2007: 11:04 am: By Marvin Marshall